is that sometimes you have to write. I said this one day to Chrissy, my wife. And now I say it a lot. I don’t know how some folks blog and blog and blog without deadlines and editors. When I’m on a piece for a magazine, there are parameters. There is drive. Some folks have heard me say “hands on keys, butt on chair” (“HOKBOC”), the key to writing. In large part, that’s true.